The power distance between men and women in East Africa is exceptional…and
women understand that they are not to question the authority of men…or pretty
much anyone. As an example, I might ask the women if meeting at 2:00 is a good
time for them and they will most certainly say “yes”…then arrive at 4:00
because they were occupied at 2:00. It would not be culturally appropriate for
these women to say “no” to someone they viewed as having more authority (but
for some reason it’s perfectly acceptable to not fulfill your commitment.)
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As another example, a woman knew that her husband was sleeping
with other women and suspected that he had HIV/AIDS. She feared confronting her
husband and asking for a test because of the power distance factor in this
culture. He could and would easily beat her for such a demand. Further, this
woman cannot refuse her husband if he makes sexual advances…again because of the
power distance. Ultimately, this woman (one among millions) will contract
HIV/AIDS and die because of the power distance in this culture.
Voice of Women Uganda seeks to close the gap in the area of
power distance. They’re not seeking to equalize or overtake men, they’re simply
wishing to help women realize their voice as it pertains to issues of
reproductive health, HIV/AIDS, education, and economic development. And alongside
that voice, they strive to help men understand the value of partnership with
their wives and the importance of their voice.
I’m honored to spend time in organizational development with
Voice of Women Uganda and am thankful for the eye opening examples these
leaders so readily share.